I wish for a day that I wouldn't have to leave the house, at all, not even open the front door. Although, I don't mind company, I just don't want to go... anywhere.
I am super social, can't wait to join up, sign up, be involved... but even I have limits. I find as I age, my limits are becoming more and more apparent to me. It never used to bother me to go every day all day. In college, I worked three part-time jobs and took twenty credit hours in one semester. I would have to change my clothes at stop lights I was so busy! It never occurred to me to want to go home, or to do less.
But, now... now, I am content in my home. Praise the Lord! That is something many women pray for and long for, and I have it. I am truly content in my home. I don't like to leave it. All the things I go out for are important, and not things I want to cut out, but sometimes I wake up in the morning and just think, 'oh it would be so nice to just hang around the house and not go anywhere today'. We've not had a day that we could do that in quite some time.
But, tomorrow. Granted, tomorrow is Wednesday and there is Advent service at our church, but today is Tyler's birthday. He could have asked for anything, but he only wanted for one day to be in charge, he only wants to hang around the house and play games with his dad all day, and maybe eat some of his favorite meals. But, today was the Christmas Party for our homeschool co-op (and there was sledding). We couldn't miss that!
So, while every day holds worthy things to take us away from home, and even tomorrow's outside activities call to us, we will grant Tyler's wish (and mine). We will take one day to just not go and we will savor every minute of that day.
Children really are a blessing from the Lord.
Tuesday, December 11, 2007
Monday, December 3, 2007
Taking whatever God gives us
We are praying every day that God sell our home and all that is in it, to take away our material possessions and to expand our territory (our opportunities to speak to groups). We want to follow the Lord and His guidance. All evidence we currently have points to selling everything and going on the road, limiting our personal financial needs so that we can devote our time to writing more books, and sharing our ideas and stories with people everywhere we go; not spend it worrrying about how we will make the house payment.
My heart isn't always in this prayer, as we have made wonderful friends here and there is a part of me that wants God to instead provide a way for us to stay here and still fulfill His plan for us.
I will not be unhappy either way.
The timing of this sale and move is ironic as the everyone we know is accumulating more as we are letting go of all that we have; offering it up to the Lord as a sacrificial offering, praying that He will do with it what He sees best. We are preparing for a weekend sale and open house, where we have invited friends and family to come and walk through the house, ask all the questions they have, see what we have planned and hopefully, they will buy books, and other things, donate some seed money to keep our mission moving and be encouraged by our story.
Every day we pray '...give us our daily bread...' as Jesus commanded and we try to remember that daily doesn't mean that we will have next month's bills paid today, it means just that which we need today. And, since He has provided for us so far, we will continue to trust in Him and be happy with whatever He gives us.
My heart isn't always in this prayer, as we have made wonderful friends here and there is a part of me that wants God to instead provide a way for us to stay here and still fulfill His plan for us.
I will not be unhappy either way.
The timing of this sale and move is ironic as the everyone we know is accumulating more as we are letting go of all that we have; offering it up to the Lord as a sacrificial offering, praying that He will do with it what He sees best. We are preparing for a weekend sale and open house, where we have invited friends and family to come and walk through the house, ask all the questions they have, see what we have planned and hopefully, they will buy books, and other things, donate some seed money to keep our mission moving and be encouraged by our story.
Every day we pray '...give us our daily bread...' as Jesus commanded and we try to remember that daily doesn't mean that we will have next month's bills paid today, it means just that which we need today. And, since He has provided for us so far, we will continue to trust in Him and be happy with whatever He gives us.
Sunday, October 28, 2007
Spend money, don't eat it.
Last night as we were all settling down and getting ready for bed, Don called me in to where he and the boys were sitting. Ethan (age 4) was crying "It hurts, It hurts." He was pointing to his chest. "He swallowed a quarter." Don said. Well, I've been a mom long enough to know that small change, like pennies and dimes, will pass in time. But, a quarter? I've never had a child swallow a quarter before. So, I called the hospital (Saturday evening - not going to get a hold of a doctor). I asked the receptionist if she thought a quarter would pass. She didn't know, but suggested I call Ask-A-Nurse and gave me their number. I called, and the nurse there told me that a quarter is large enough to possibly cause some internal injury, and that I should take him in to get checked out. So, we went in and he got an xray. I am going to call and see if I can get a copy to put in his scrapbook - Goofy Kid! I was surprised to find that almost everyone we ran into at the hospital had a story of thing they swallowed or got stuck up their nose or in their ear or something. I didn't think it was that common. Although, when I arrived home, Don said that he had looked online and found that one in three ER visits have to do with foreign objects in the body. At the ER, talking with Ethan, he explained that he had found the quarter and so it was lucky. He was in his pajamas, which have no pockets, and so he was looking for a place to keep his quarter where it wouldn't get lost. So, he put it in his mouth, then OOPS! Well, the xray showed it in his stomach, and the doctor said it will likely pass, but there are two valves that it might get caught up at. So, we are checking stool until we find the quarter. If we don't find it in a few days, he'll have to go back in and get a new picture taken to try to find it. So, our prayer request is that God guides it through his system with as little pain and discomfort as possible. Our lesson to Ethan is "Spend money, don't eat it."
Friday, October 26, 2007
Ready, Set, Go! Purging Stage
It has been official for nearly two weeks now. Don left his job, a fifteen year career, just said goodbye to it. It all began many years ago, but came to a crossing in the road back in May of 07. After attending INCH (homeschool convention), he was sure it was time for us to go. To do the things we'd talked about doing for years, sell all the stuff and hit the road. We had nothing tying us to this location, except a house and the stuff in it. We were already homeschooling; we were about to publish a book that would require one of us to travel regularly to promote it, and the only reason to keep the job was to pay for all the stuff. So, let's quit talking and start moving. So, we did it. Don is home and we are working like ants trying to spruce up the old homestead so that someone will give us the big paycheck we are after. Of course, we are still publicizing the book, and working on the second title in our series (see vacationeducationbooks.com if you don't already know what I'm talking about here). The work, the painting and cleaning, moving the claw foot tub around... all that is easy compared to the emotional string cutting that has to happen in order for this all to work. My daughters(as opposed to their brothers) have been willing to give up pretty much every material possession, they are excited and looking forward to the journey and have hardly whispered even the slightest complaint about purging, until today. When it came down to size limitations, Caitlin looked fondly at her doll house and said, "I have to get rid of that?" I nodded, and said that she could keep it in her room for now, but that when the house sells and we go on the road full time, it will have to go. She sadly agreed, but I thought about her for the rest of the day. It isn't the dollhouse itself, it's what the doll house represents... this house is made from tiny pieces of wood from a kit that she and I spent all day every day for nearly a solid week gluing together to build this house. I know it isn't the house itself that matters, it's the memory that is elicited from the house, the sight of it, the smell of it, the feel of it, all those things bring about a flood of emotions as I think upon the days that we spent creating it. It's those feelings, those memories, that togetherness that I want to keep, and that I know Caitlin wants to keep as well. Those are the things that we are pursuing as we head out on this adventure; the togetherness, the memories, the fun things we'll do and see together, that's why we wrote this book series, that's why we are walking away from the material possessions, that's why we are leaving behind the things that burden us. I know the sadness that Caitlin feels as she lets go of the things in her life, but more importantly, I know that it is not about the dollhouse.
Thursday, October 4, 2007
Writing with children
If it weren’t for my children, I would have nothing to write about. They are my inspiration, my most honest critics, and quite often, they are the material as well. Today, I planned to write… all day. People are asking, “When can we buy the next book [in the series]?” My best answer is that I would like to have it finished by the end of this year. Then, the phone rings.
Exactly!
This is how a day in the life of a writer with children goes. I sit down to work at the laptop, the girls are at Grandma’s for the weekend, the boys are playing, I am working. Then, Don reminded me that we needed to go pick up our car. Oh yeah, I hadn’t really forgotten, it had just slipped my mind.
That’s done, the boys are watching a show that Daddy taped for them, and Jacob is in his bed, fed, changed, and contently sleeping. Everything is good, the house is clean… enough, it is quiet, the laptop is on the dining room table, open and waiting for me. I start to work, to write, it’s going along. I get thirsty, get a glass of water, think I’d really love some coffee, I start to make a pot, then I check the email real quick, just while the coffee is brewing. I need to connect with the printer, I compose, attach, send, the coffee is done.
I begin to work and go over some design elements. I have an illustration that I am trying to decide how I will do it… I think that I will try to draw it out and see what I come up with.
Oh yeah, the pencils are in the van because I used them yesterday at the Book Mark Family Activity Night that I spoke at. I’ll go get them. When I get to the van…
Oh yeah, the box that all the pencils are in is underneath a load of groceries that we picked up on the way home last night because as we were driving we noticed a sign that said “Sure Fine Sale” When we see a great deal, we buy it by the case load and then some. We packed the van as full as it would get; if we hadn’t already dropped the girls off with Grandma, they’d have been riding with cans under their feet and boxes in their laps. We felt it was God’s providence, because we were able to purchase even more at these great prices because we could fill up the space that would have normally been filled by extra bodies.
So, of course, I start to carry in cases of food; we didn’t unload the van last night because it was late when we got home, all the items were nonperishable, and Don had to work at 4am. So, anyway, I begin to carry in the groceries, not all of them, I planned to only bring in enough to uncover the box of my supplies, so I can get at the pencils that I want to use for sketching out some graphic design ideas, because today is a day that I will work on the book.. all day.
When I get the groceries into the kitchen, I take one look at the pantry and realize…
Oh yeah, there’s no way I am going to get all of this food into this space unless I get it better organized. So, I begin to clean out a few shelves that are mostly empty anyway and make room for the new stuff. Then, I hear a noise… can that be Jacob crying? Oh my, it’s only been a few minutes… no, it’s been an hour, he could be awake already. Yes, that’s him. I go around to the back stairs to listen, and see that the back of the van is still open…
Oh yeah, I was bringing in those groceries so that I could uncover the box that contains the pencil case that has the supplies I wanted so I could work on the book today… all day.
Jacob cries again. I head up the stairs and get him. He is no longer dry and full and content, but is teary eyed (Mama, you made me wait!), wet and unhappy with me. We get a new diaper, a little snuggling, and then I try to pass him off on his brothers who are happily playing together. They go for it, sort of… it’s really more of an “I guess he can hang out with us, but we’re not really interested in entertaining him. Set him over there so he’s out of the way.”
I give him a few toys and look around the room for anything I don’t want knocked off an end table (like that glass of water) or eaten (like those quarters, it’s always nice to find money in unexpected places, but never in a diaper). I pick up a few things, leave to put them away and Jacob rebels. “I’m not going for it, don’t you dare leave me again.” He’s a one year old, he doesn’t actually speak like this; I’m translating.
So, I pick him up and carry him on my hip, and head for the kitchen to take care of that glass of water, when I see the pantry….
Oh yeah, I was going to organize that and put away those groceries so that I could get to the box in the van that has my supplies from last night so I can get out my pencils I wanted to use for sketching designs for the book I’m working on… Okay, I’ll do that just as soon as I can find the backpack carrier for Jacob, he’ll be happy in that. Where is that at?
Oh yeah, it’s still in the van because I took it with me last night and it was late when we got home and we didn’t bring everything in. So, out to the van I go to get the backpack carrier…
Oh yeah, the back of the van is still open because I was going to unload the groceries so I could get to the box that I packed up the supplies in which contains the pencils I wanted to use to sketch the design for the book that I am working on today… all day.
I move the groceries, get the pencils, close the hatch, and head inside to work, as soon as I put Jacob into the carrier…
Oh yeah, still in the van. Back outside. Get the carrier, close the door, go inside, put the baby in the pack, and work… standing up, rocking back and forth, but working. Writing, not sketching, I can type standing and rocking, but not draw. Baby falls asleep and I sit down to work on a cover design, since that’s the one idea I came up with while I was pacing. I think it’s a good one, and I get it sketched out when my four year old comes to me starving. I am tempted to make him finish the half eaten bowl of cereal he left on the table, but it really is kind of gross. So, I cut up apples and bananas, make sandwiches, turn off the pantry light (I’m not going back in there until I get some work done), put lunch on the table, pray with my sons for our food, for our girls who are gone today, for dad who is at work, and silently I pray for productivity.
They eat, I go back to the laptop, then I remember that somewhere I have a book with a really great picture of what I’m thinking of, I’m sure it will inspire me. I just have to find it. The boys finish lunch, now they all need baths (how does that happen?), but I’m working so I’ll let them go back to playing on the carpet and I will clean up the banana mush from the carpet the next time I plan a whole house cleaning day… all day. Today, I am working, writing… all day. Then, the phone rings. I answer it, I’m not really getting anything done anyway. Chitter chatter, chitter chatter, I refill my coffee, I play on the floor with my baby, I listen to the stories my sons are inventing together, I sweep the dining room floor (I just can’t ignore those Cheerios I’ve been stepping on for another minute)…
I’m chatting on the phone, while I edit a few pages, and feeding Jacob bananas (that’s what I call productive) when I realize that he has something in his hand that doesn’t look like anything I’m feeding him. I look down into the seat of the high chair and discover that we’ve experienced a diaper explosion. No matter how many times I do this, there is still something unsettling about green slimy goo with whole raisins in it coming from my baby’s bottom end. We wash, we bathe, we sanitize, and then since I’m in the bathroom anyway, I call those other two boys to get into the tub and wash the dried banana off their noses, elbows and anywhere else it might reside.
Jacob is clean and as I changed him I noticed that his diaper was pretty much empty, so either in my rush to get it on him or in his own wiggly way, we ended up with the diaper off to the side and the mess primarily in the chair…
Oh yeah, there is still some on the floor…
I am distracted by life, but I am glad to be living it… all day, everyday.
So, if you see me at an event and you really feel you must ask, “When is the next book going to be out?” please understand when I answer, “Hmmm.”
Exactly!
This is how a day in the life of a writer with children goes. I sit down to work at the laptop, the girls are at Grandma’s for the weekend, the boys are playing, I am working. Then, Don reminded me that we needed to go pick up our car. Oh yeah, I hadn’t really forgotten, it had just slipped my mind.
That’s done, the boys are watching a show that Daddy taped for them, and Jacob is in his bed, fed, changed, and contently sleeping. Everything is good, the house is clean… enough, it is quiet, the laptop is on the dining room table, open and waiting for me. I start to work, to write, it’s going along. I get thirsty, get a glass of water, think I’d really love some coffee, I start to make a pot, then I check the email real quick, just while the coffee is brewing. I need to connect with the printer, I compose, attach, send, the coffee is done.
I begin to work and go over some design elements. I have an illustration that I am trying to decide how I will do it… I think that I will try to draw it out and see what I come up with.
Oh yeah, the pencils are in the van because I used them yesterday at the Book Mark Family Activity Night that I spoke at. I’ll go get them. When I get to the van…
Oh yeah, the box that all the pencils are in is underneath a load of groceries that we picked up on the way home last night because as we were driving we noticed a sign that said “Sure Fine Sale” When we see a great deal, we buy it by the case load and then some. We packed the van as full as it would get; if we hadn’t already dropped the girls off with Grandma, they’d have been riding with cans under their feet and boxes in their laps. We felt it was God’s providence, because we were able to purchase even more at these great prices because we could fill up the space that would have normally been filled by extra bodies.
So, of course, I start to carry in cases of food; we didn’t unload the van last night because it was late when we got home, all the items were nonperishable, and Don had to work at 4am. So, anyway, I begin to carry in the groceries, not all of them, I planned to only bring in enough to uncover the box of my supplies, so I can get at the pencils that I want to use for sketching out some graphic design ideas, because today is a day that I will work on the book.. all day.
When I get the groceries into the kitchen, I take one look at the pantry and realize…
Oh yeah, there’s no way I am going to get all of this food into this space unless I get it better organized. So, I begin to clean out a few shelves that are mostly empty anyway and make room for the new stuff. Then, I hear a noise… can that be Jacob crying? Oh my, it’s only been a few minutes… no, it’s been an hour, he could be awake already. Yes, that’s him. I go around to the back stairs to listen, and see that the back of the van is still open…
Oh yeah, I was bringing in those groceries so that I could uncover the box that contains the pencil case that has the supplies I wanted so I could work on the book today… all day.
Jacob cries again. I head up the stairs and get him. He is no longer dry and full and content, but is teary eyed (Mama, you made me wait!), wet and unhappy with me. We get a new diaper, a little snuggling, and then I try to pass him off on his brothers who are happily playing together. They go for it, sort of… it’s really more of an “I guess he can hang out with us, but we’re not really interested in entertaining him. Set him over there so he’s out of the way.”
I give him a few toys and look around the room for anything I don’t want knocked off an end table (like that glass of water) or eaten (like those quarters, it’s always nice to find money in unexpected places, but never in a diaper). I pick up a few things, leave to put them away and Jacob rebels. “I’m not going for it, don’t you dare leave me again.” He’s a one year old, he doesn’t actually speak like this; I’m translating.
So, I pick him up and carry him on my hip, and head for the kitchen to take care of that glass of water, when I see the pantry….
Oh yeah, I was going to organize that and put away those groceries so that I could get to the box in the van that has my supplies from last night so I can get out my pencils I wanted to use for sketching designs for the book I’m working on… Okay, I’ll do that just as soon as I can find the backpack carrier for Jacob, he’ll be happy in that. Where is that at?
Oh yeah, it’s still in the van because I took it with me last night and it was late when we got home and we didn’t bring everything in. So, out to the van I go to get the backpack carrier…
Oh yeah, the back of the van is still open because I was going to unload the groceries so I could get to the box that I packed up the supplies in which contains the pencils I wanted to use to sketch the design for the book that I am working on today… all day.
I move the groceries, get the pencils, close the hatch, and head inside to work, as soon as I put Jacob into the carrier…
Oh yeah, still in the van. Back outside. Get the carrier, close the door, go inside, put the baby in the pack, and work… standing up, rocking back and forth, but working. Writing, not sketching, I can type standing and rocking, but not draw. Baby falls asleep and I sit down to work on a cover design, since that’s the one idea I came up with while I was pacing. I think it’s a good one, and I get it sketched out when my four year old comes to me starving. I am tempted to make him finish the half eaten bowl of cereal he left on the table, but it really is kind of gross. So, I cut up apples and bananas, make sandwiches, turn off the pantry light (I’m not going back in there until I get some work done), put lunch on the table, pray with my sons for our food, for our girls who are gone today, for dad who is at work, and silently I pray for productivity.
They eat, I go back to the laptop, then I remember that somewhere I have a book with a really great picture of what I’m thinking of, I’m sure it will inspire me. I just have to find it. The boys finish lunch, now they all need baths (how does that happen?), but I’m working so I’ll let them go back to playing on the carpet and I will clean up the banana mush from the carpet the next time I plan a whole house cleaning day… all day. Today, I am working, writing… all day. Then, the phone rings. I answer it, I’m not really getting anything done anyway. Chitter chatter, chitter chatter, I refill my coffee, I play on the floor with my baby, I listen to the stories my sons are inventing together, I sweep the dining room floor (I just can’t ignore those Cheerios I’ve been stepping on for another minute)…
I’m chatting on the phone, while I edit a few pages, and feeding Jacob bananas (that’s what I call productive) when I realize that he has something in his hand that doesn’t look like anything I’m feeding him. I look down into the seat of the high chair and discover that we’ve experienced a diaper explosion. No matter how many times I do this, there is still something unsettling about green slimy goo with whole raisins in it coming from my baby’s bottom end. We wash, we bathe, we sanitize, and then since I’m in the bathroom anyway, I call those other two boys to get into the tub and wash the dried banana off their noses, elbows and anywhere else it might reside.
Jacob is clean and as I changed him I noticed that his diaper was pretty much empty, so either in my rush to get it on him or in his own wiggly way, we ended up with the diaper off to the side and the mess primarily in the chair…
Oh yeah, there is still some on the floor…
I am distracted by life, but I am glad to be living it… all day, everyday.
So, if you see me at an event and you really feel you must ask, “When is the next book going to be out?” please understand when I answer, “Hmmm.”
Thursday, September 27, 2007
Nothing but the Best for my Baby
As a mother of five, I’ve had opportunity to own and use just about every product for baby that there is. When I was expecting baby #1, I received a list like this one that I copied directly from www.medicinenet.com. There are several others available that are similar if not identical, but this one is from a doctor, so it’s the one I’m addressing. The italic notes are my comments on what real life showed us about what a baby really needs, and which products our children really loved, and we found to be the best.
Here’s the article:
Welcoming a baby into this world requires more than making sure he or she is healthy in your tummy. At some point, your little love will make his or her way out of your belly and you need to be prepared. This list should help you get all you need to take care of your baby during the early months. As your baby gets older, you will find other items that will make your life easier (like a jumpy seat or an exer-saucer!).
The Nursery
Cradle, bassinet or crib: If you choose to have your baby sleep in your room at night, a cradle or bassinet is a nice option for the first few months. When the baby gets bigger, you will need to get a crib. When choosing a crib, make sure it meets the latest safety standards and that there are 2 3/8 inches between the slats.
Crib mattress: Unfortunately, most cribs do not come with mattresses so you will need to purchase one. Pick out a mattress that has good back support, is not too soft, and meets all the fire-retardant regulations.
Yes, we’ve always had one, although all of our children preferred to sleep with us (the girls still sleep together because they don't like to sleep alone). The two oldest girls had a standard wood frame crib bought from our local retail department store; the second one was not yet a year old when she destroyed it. She was a quiet one (never stops talking now, go figure)and she never cried, so we didn’t always know when she woke up. She was more of a doer than a talker (still is and since she never stops talking… you can imagine all the doing she’s been doing). Her solution to her desire to get out of the crib was to stand up, grab hold of the rails and shake it like crazy until someone showed up and made her stop. She didn’t cry or scream, but actually seemed to enjoy this activity, grinning the entire time. One day, the slat cracked, right in half, and that was the end of that crib.
The next two slept in a Port A Crib that we had (I saw little point in buying another crib, since the next two were boys and I figured they would have no trouble tearing down that little stick cage in a pretty big hurry). The Port A Crib type bed worked out fine, we could take it on trips and the babies never had to sleep in a strange bed, however, it did not hold up well to general use. It was difficult to clean (standard crib mattresses have a plastic coating that can be wiped off), and after two children using it full time, it did not smell very good.
For baby #5, we were given a beautiful metal framed crib, with elaborate details, and it has been a gorgeous addition to our bedroom furniture.
Every child’s favorite place to sleep? Snuggled against mama’s chest.
Musical mobile for crib: This isn't essential, but a nice addition to the crib. Find one with the figurines facing down so that baby can see them better.
Who is this for? Mom or baby? If it’s for baby, why is baby laying in his crib needing something to look at? I bet he’d love to be looking at mama’s face.
Dresser: You will need a few drawers to store baby's clothes and toys.
This is a legitimate need. We bought a used, good quality piece that is simple and classic in design and will last his lifetime. My husband still uses the dresser he had as a child and it shows no signs of failing.
Changing area: This can be on top of a dresser or a separate changing table. It is a good idea to purchase a pad to lay baby on top of when changing. Never take your hand or eyes off baby when changing him or her, especially if your changing area is off the ground; baby's can roll off the table at the blink of an eye.
Had one, never used it. I tend to change baby wherever I am at the moment, usually on the floor; after a little practice, you get where you can do this quickly and don’t have to worry about making a mess on the floor. All body fluids wipe up easily from wood or vinyl floors, on carpet you could lay a towel under his bottom if you wanted. The most unusual place I ever changed a diaper? We were standing in line for the Jungle Cruise at Walt Disney World, when we realized that it was going to be quite a wait, and Jacob desperately needed a new diaper. Don held him up by the arms against his chest and I stripped down the pants, replaced the diaper, redressed him and we kept moving along with the line the whole time.
Rocking chair or glider. Although not essential, it's nice to have when feeding baby. Pick one out that has padded arms for extra support and comfort. A footrest adds additional comfort, especially if breastfeeding.
Have one, love it, babies or not, busy ladies need a comfortable place to sit in those spare moments that we have opportunity to.
Nightlight. Not essential, but it helps you see during those middle of the night diaper changes and feedings.
Okay, sure, not a bad idea. Mostly so I don’t step on a Lego or Lincoln Log; Hot Wheels cars are especially painful.
Tape or CD player: Lullaby music is a nice way to lull baby into a peaceful sleep or soothe baby when he or she is upset.
We all love music; Don and Caitlin both have excellent singing voices, Summer plays a little piano, and we have a large CD collection. I am no singing talent, and don’t play a musical instrument, but the sound my children love the most? The best lullaby ever? The sound of mama’s voice.
Crib Linens
1 set of crib bumpers
1 quilted mattress pad
2 fitted crib sheets (smaller sizes are sold for cradles, bassinets or port-a-cribs)
2 waterproof mattress pads or waterproof sheets
2 light blankets
1 sleep positioner. This is not essential but it does helps keep baby sleeping on his or her back or side. It is sold in most baby stores.
When making the crib, you have a few options. You may choose to use a waterproof mattress pad on the bottom and put the fitted crib sheet on top of that or you may want to look in to purchasing a waterproof pad/sheet (called sheet-savers) that goes on top of the fitted crib sheet. These can be found in most baby stores and make cleaning up accidents easier since all you have to do is change the top sheet of the crib.
Every crib mattress I’ve ever seen is plastic coated; this is easy to dry and wipe down as necessary. We use a fitted sheet (If he makes a mess on it, we change it, it’s small and thin and doesn’t add a lot to the laundry, otherwise I change his when I wash all the household bedding.)
If you go this route, be sure to get one that snaps on to the crib railings (you do not want the ones that you just place on top of the fitted sheet - these can increase the risk of sudden infant death syndrome).
If you choose to use the waterproof sheet savers you really only need 1 fitted crib sheet and 2 waterproof sheets. The fitted crib sheet should require few changes since the waterproof sheet saver on top will keep it dry. You do, however, want to get two waterproof sheet savers since you will need to change those regularly.
Note: babies don't need pillows or fluffy comforters in their crib! They also should not sleep with stuffed animals or toys. They could cause your baby to suffocate since he or she is not strong enough to roll over or push them away.
I’m not arguing this point, we’re not really stuffed toy collectors anyway. I’m just wondering how the toy gets over baby’s face? If he is not strong enough to roll over, he’s not going to the toy. (I assume the toy isn’t moving to him on its own – if it is, you have a whole other problem- they’ve written horror films about stuff like that). It just seems that by the time baby is old enough to get to the toy and get it by his face, he would also be old enough to push it away if it was keeping him from breathing. God didn’t make babies completely helpless (they have a few instincts that help them survive – like wanting to breathe).
Diaper Time: What You Need for the Changing Table
Diapers (plan on using 70-90 per week for the first six weeks, then 50 per week)
We’ve used both disposable and cloth; I prefer cloth.
Disposable diaper wipes (alcohol-free)
You can make your own from Bounty paper towels, or you can just as easily use a warm wet wash cloth. This works well with cloth diapers as you just throw the whole bit into the diaper pail to be washed together. Using the same soap for wiping as you do for bathing lessens the chance of irritation.
Diaper rash ointment or cream (such as Desitin or A&D)
Babies who are breast fed and cloth diapered hardly ever get diaper rash.
Rubbing alcohol to wipe around base of umbilical cord
Cotton swabs to apply rubbing alcohol
Petroleum jelly to apply on circumcision (so the baby's penis doesn't stick to the diaper)
These are items you likely have in your home already, they have various other uses.
Pad for baby to lie on during changing
I wouldn’t spend money on this, a towel works fine. They are often included in a diaper bag.
Diaper pail
Breastfed babies aren’t nearly as stinky. We wash diapers (cloth) about twice a week and just keep them in an open top bucket. For disposables; a plastic grocery bag can be wrapped around an especially nasty one and tied up before putting it into your regular trash.
Layette: Baby's First Clothes
6 undershirts that snap on the bottom or tie on the side, commonly called "onesies" (3 in three-month size and 3 in six-month size)
3-4 infant gowns with elastic bottoms or draw strings. These make for easy diaper changes. All you have to do is pull the gown up over the belly to change the diaper and then pull it back down when finished. There is no stumbling around trying to snap the gown back together, which is especially nice when it's 3 am and all you want to do is get baby back to sleep so that you can get back to sleep.
I have to agree, I loved these.
6 sleepers/stretch suits (3 newborn to three-month size and 3 in six-month size). These are nice to put baby in during the day, but are not essential items. When buying these, make sure you get the kind that zip up the front. These are easier to get baby in and out.
3-4 pairs of booties or socks with stretch elastic band at cuff
3-4 receiving blankets
1 blanket to cover swaddled baby in crib
1 sweater and hat
This is only if you have a late fall or winter baby. Summer babies can get too hot if all wrapped up all the time. None of my children ever kept a pair of socks or shoes on until they were walking on their own all the time.
Bathing Baby: What You Need
Baby bathtub (sloping with foam pad or flat with molded sponge insert)
Had one, used it once, it seemed silly and awkward. I like to take baby into the tub with me when they are very little and then into the shower when they are a little older. In the tub, I sit up and lay him across my chest or on my lap with my knees lifted. By age one or so, I sit nearby and read while they play in the tub (It’s like their own personal giant swimming pool).
4 terry cloth bath towels (hooded towels are OK, but not necessary)
4-6 washcloths
Just used what I already had.
Tearless shampoo
Baby soap. Many brands make baby shampoo and soap all in one.
I buy one or the other, never both. Babies don’t really get all that dirty until they are big enough to play in the dirt, and even that is mostly rinsed off with water.
Brush and comb
This is something most people need, (except for guys like my husband who just shave it off and never have to worry about a comb or brush) but I wouldn’t bother with the special baby ones. By the time any of my kids had enough hair to need a brush, they could use a regular hairbrush.
Rounded-tip nail scissors or clippers. If you are afraid you may clip more than baby's nails, you can nibble their nails with your teeth. Usually this is easier during the first few weeks.
This is good advice. I’ve often nibbled his nails down while he nurses as that is usually when I notice that he is scratching me.
Bulb syringe nasal aspirator. These are used to suction excess mucus from baby's nose (the one you receive in the hospital is a keeper!)
I’ve never used one of these. I’ve had one with every child, but never had a need for it. We never had an excess mucus problem. But, I will mention that not everyone has their baby in the hospital… I personally had a home birth, loved it, would do it again, can’t imagine any better way.
Washing Baby's Laundry
It is a good idea to wash all clothing and bedding in a detergent safe for babies. Some popular brands are Dreft and Ivory Snow. These products have been tested for their safe use for all skin types, especially infants.
These are expensive. None of us have ever had problems with detergent, although I know some people are sensitive.
Wash all infant clothing, bedding and towels, prior to first use.
To remove tough stains (such as spit-up), spot-treat the item with one of these detergents or soak prior to washing.
If you go to yard sales or resale and you see infant clothing with yellow spit up stains; those were formula fed babies. Breastfed babies don’t spit up as often and if they do, it washes out easily; doesn’t stain.
Feeding Baby
6 bottles. Even if you are breastfeeding, you should have bottles to use for pumped breast milk.
This is not necessarily true. My oldest children were fed both breast milk and formula, but my youngest was given breast only from birth until he could drink out of a cup and then we offered him alternatives. If you feel you might need to pump milk in an emergency, the pump that you buy will have storage bottles and you can buy a nipple to fit and keep this in the case with the pump.
In thirteen months, Jacob never had formula and I pumped one time. He was ill for several days and not nursing as much as normal. This was a sudden drop off and I became engorged. When I couldn’t get him to nurse, I used a pump to bring down the swelling and saved the milk. I did try at one time to give it to him, but he had no interest in the bottle anyway.
12 nipples and covers
1 bottle and nipple brush for cleaning
Dishwasher basket for bottles and nipples (optional, but makes for easy cleaning)
Infant formula and measuring cup (if you are not breastfeeding). Use the brand recommended by your child's doctor.
Breastfeed! Then, you can take all of these items off of your list and buy something you really want.
12 Burp cloths
If you use cloth diapers, these can do double duty here. I mostly would forget to use it on the occasion that my child did spit up on me, but I figure I would have put the shirt in the laundry at the end of the day anyway.
6 Bibs
I can see a usefulness here, but I just never use them. I’ve even hung a bunch on the back of a chair in the dining room so they would get used, but just never really did. Again, with practice and patience, you get good at spoon feeding without getting it all over their clothes. When they feed themselves, that’s another story. My best suggestion? Take off their shirt and let them eat naked. Baths are fun, laundry’s not.
Diaper Bag: What You Need When You Are on the Go
When buying a diaper bag, pick one that has lots of pockets and places to store individual items. Also, keep in mind that your diaper bag often becomes your purse, so find one large enough to keep your wallet, keys, glasses, cell phone and other items you need for yourself.
I use a backpack (not a special expensive diaper bag/backpack combination, but just a regular back to school sale kind of back pack). It is pink, so my daughters are happy to help carry it. I keep it in the van most of the time and just add stuff to it as needed. Because it is a backpack, we can take it hands free, and it is big enough for an overnight bag. For short runs, I can put a few wipes in a Ziploc style baggie and a diaper in my glovebox (in the car) or in my pocket (on a walk or bike ride), and not need a bag at all.
It's a good idea to keep this bag packed with the following items at all times so if you need to leave the house in a hurry (especially if you have to take baby to the doctor unexpectedly), you'll be ready:
5-6 diapers
Disposable wipes
Diaper rash cream or ointment
Pad to lie your baby on top of when changing the diaper
Plastic bags to wrap dirty diapers in until you can find a trashcan to throw them out
Change of clothes for baby. Infant onesies, a pair of socks, hat, baby outfit.
Blanket
2 clean bottles and powdered formula (if bottle feeding)
Burp cloth
Pacifier (if using)
Baby toy or rattle
Sunscreen for babies older than 6 months.
Baby Tylenol
Okay, we just spent two weeks at Walt Disney World and here is what we carried into the park each day expecting to be gone from our hotel (home) from around 7am until at least 6pm. We used a tiny Tinkerbell back pack that we found in the toy section and my second oldest liked the bag so much she carried it the entire time. She never had to take it off to ride a ride and it never was heavy or uncomfortable for her. Inside, we packed:
One park map; essential
One small tube (3oz – this is the same size that airlines will allow you to carry on) of 50SPF sunblock. Our family is all very light skinned and we burn easily. This amount was enough for us to get through the day (all seven of us coating our exposed parts). We refilled this small bottle from a larger one that we kept in the room.
Four (4) disposable diapers – We never actually used that many in a single trip. Jacob rode in a carrier on my back all day, and babies are less likely to go when carried, so we were able to estimate when we need to change him. (About twenty minutes after a meal or snack and a large drink, and soon after taking him out of the carrier.) We use cloth at home and I usually keep a few plastic grocery bags in the pack for bringing home the dirties.
One sandwich sized baggie with about 15 individual wet wipes.
One change of clothes. It was hot, so this was usually just an extra onesie.
We tried carrying a sippy cup, but found that it was just as easy to let him drink out of a straw or nurse when he was thirsty. So, we gave that up after a few days.
That’s it. That’s all we carried. Nothing more and coincidentally, it was always more than enough.
Other Essentials
Newborn-size pacifier. Many lactation consultants recommend not using a pacifier if you are breastfeeding to prevent nipple confusion in your baby.
Babies comfort nurse. This just means they like to snuggle and suckle (what Jacob is doing as I try to type this with one hand – he is latched on, but not really drinking, mostly just holding on because it’s comfortable – of course, he is interested in everything going on around him, so he doesn’t really snuggle, he does more of a flopping around kind of thing, but he doesn’t let go. Letting baby nurse when he wants means I am the pacifier.
Infant car seat. Can also be used as a baby carrier. And you can find stroller frames that the infant car seat can snap into so that you don't have to carry the car seat at all times, which can get heavy. If you decide to get a stroller that your infant car seat can snap in to, make sure you get one that fits your infant carrier.
Car seats are required by law, although I used to stand up on the seat next to my mom in the front seat of a pick up truck and I’m okay. The infant seats that lock into a base in the car and also lock into the frame of a stroller are very nice and convenient. Keep in mind that many babies reach the twenty pound limit on these seats very quickly. I had a baby the end of August, we didn’t go very many places in September, and by October it was quite cold for taking a new baby for a walk; then winter. By spring, he was too big for the infant seat (we had used it all winter as a car seat, but only a few times with the stroller feature). The stroller itself has years of use, but the extra money for this convenience is just that, extra money for convenience.
Breast pump for breastfeeding moms. Breast pumps allow you to pump milk so that someone else can feed your baby. This is important if you need to leave your baby for a significant amount of time (for example, if you are working). Breast pumps also come in handy when your breasts get engorged and baby is too sleepy to help you out. With a breast pump you can pump some of the milk out and save it for when baby is ready to eat
I would suggest having one an hand or at least knowing where you can borrow one. If you borrow one, you should clean it thoroughly before and after each use, of course.
Baby's Medicine Cabinet
Thermometer. There are many types available. Some doctors prefer that you use a rectal thermometer to get the most accurate temperature.
Yeah, not doing that. I personally have an aversion to putting things in baby’s bottom. I’m not really thrilled about taking care of the stuff that comes out as it is.
A digital, plastic thermometer that you can place under your baby's armpit may be easy for you to use for the first six months. Ear thermometers can be used after age 6 months.
Both of these are simple to use. For your own sanity, it is nice to be able to say, “His temperature is 99, that’s not too high, and it’s not going up, he’s probably fine.” As opposed to thinking, “Hmmm, he feels a little warmer than usual, maybe he has a fever, maybe he’s sick, maybe… maybe … maybe.” Anyone who’s ever been a parent can tell you that your mind can really cause trouble when it comes to imagining all the horrible things that might be wrong with your child.
Calibrated medicine dropper
Pain reliever/fever reducer medicine (acetaminophen, such as Tylenol infant drops, is recommended). Infant Motrin works great to relieve inflammation associated with teething. Do not use aspirin!
Mylicon drops to relieve gas.
Baby Orajel or Ambesol to soothe teething gums.
Small gauze squares to clean wounds.
Hydrogen peroxide to clean wounds.
Wound cream such as Bacitracin Antibiotic or Johnson & Johnson First Aid Cream. Do not use Neosporin on babies under age 6 months, as it contains an ingredient, neomycin, which can cause sensitivity in infants.
Small bandages.
Cool mist vaporizer. Good for when baby has a cold.
Infant sunscreen for babies over age 6 months. If you live in a very sunny climate and your child is exposed to sun often, talk to your baby's doctor about applying sunscreen earlier.
Syrup of Ipecac to be used only as directed by the Poison Control Center to induce vomiting.
Pedialyte or Ricelyte to be used as directed by your child's pediatrician for fluid replacement during diarrhea.
I keep a basic first aid kit, but it doesn’t have all these things in it. My children are seldom ill, and if they were, I would purchase what was needed at the time. There are risks to using medicinal products past their expiration date, so buying a bunch of stuff just to fill the medicine cabinet, probably means throwing most of it away unused.
Nonessentials (But Nice-to-Have!)
Baby monitor
A few years ago, we moved into a large home and I can’t always hear what is going on in other parts of the house, so this is an item that I appreciate. I would never use it if I had to replace batteries though, so I made sure to get one that has the option of using battery or power cords.
Swing
We’ve had several and I like the idea, but baby’s favorite place is mama’s arms.
Baby book. Essential if you want to record your baby's firsts.
We do love to journal. More and more I find I’m doing it on the computer, but I try to keep hard copies of some things to give to my children some day.
Infant seat. A "bouncy" seat is great! It gives you a safe place to put baby while you do things for yourself.
Want time for yourself? How about letting dad or someone else have some time with the baby?
High chair. You will use it when baby is 4-6 months old
These take up a lot of space for the time they are in use. We are trying (and I don’t know how well it will work) for the first time to go without a high chair. We have a seat that attaches to the table, that is portable and that so far seems to be a good choice. We will see how the transition period goes; will he be too big for the seat before he is big enough to sit in a booster chair?
Baby sling or pouch. These come in handy when you need to have your hands free to get things done around the house, but still carry your baby.
This is one item that I would put on the essential list. There is no better place for your baby than with you, but I know that I still have to clean house, teach children, train and discipline, read stories, play with and cook for my crew. I have a fabric carrier with back pack straps (no frame-a hybrid between the sling and the hiking pack) that has proved to be an incredible asset. Jacob loves to ride in it, falls asleep against my back listening to the sound of my heartbeat. I can wear it all day comfortably, it’s never in the way, and I can do all the things that I could do if I wasn’t carrying a baby at all. If I want to be more involved with him, I wear it on the front.
Now, I’m not saying that this isn’t a good list; I’m sure they put a lot of thought into it; I’m just adding my two cents. But, I would like to share a list of THE BEST products on the market. I didn’t make up this list, but I’ve seen it several places and don’t know who to credit it to.
The Best infant seat: mama’s arms.
The Best Stroller: mama’s body
The Best infant swing: mama’s lap
The Best music for babies: mama singing
The Best sound for baby: mama’s heartbeat
The Best food, the Best milk warming device, the Best pacifier, and the Best tranquilizer: mama’s breast.
The list of things to buy was taken from Medicinenet.com and credits are as follows:
Reviewed by The Cleveland Clinic Birthing Services and the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology.
Edited by Charlotte E. Grayson, MD,, April 2004, WebMD.
Portions of this page copyright © The Cleveland Clinic 2000-2002
Here’s the article:
Welcoming a baby into this world requires more than making sure he or she is healthy in your tummy. At some point, your little love will make his or her way out of your belly and you need to be prepared. This list should help you get all you need to take care of your baby during the early months. As your baby gets older, you will find other items that will make your life easier (like a jumpy seat or an exer-saucer!).
The Nursery
Cradle, bassinet or crib: If you choose to have your baby sleep in your room at night, a cradle or bassinet is a nice option for the first few months. When the baby gets bigger, you will need to get a crib. When choosing a crib, make sure it meets the latest safety standards and that there are 2 3/8 inches between the slats.
Crib mattress: Unfortunately, most cribs do not come with mattresses so you will need to purchase one. Pick out a mattress that has good back support, is not too soft, and meets all the fire-retardant regulations.
Yes, we’ve always had one, although all of our children preferred to sleep with us (the girls still sleep together because they don't like to sleep alone). The two oldest girls had a standard wood frame crib bought from our local retail department store; the second one was not yet a year old when she destroyed it. She was a quiet one (never stops talking now, go figure)and she never cried, so we didn’t always know when she woke up. She was more of a doer than a talker (still is and since she never stops talking… you can imagine all the doing she’s been doing). Her solution to her desire to get out of the crib was to stand up, grab hold of the rails and shake it like crazy until someone showed up and made her stop. She didn’t cry or scream, but actually seemed to enjoy this activity, grinning the entire time. One day, the slat cracked, right in half, and that was the end of that crib.
The next two slept in a Port A Crib that we had (I saw little point in buying another crib, since the next two were boys and I figured they would have no trouble tearing down that little stick cage in a pretty big hurry). The Port A Crib type bed worked out fine, we could take it on trips and the babies never had to sleep in a strange bed, however, it did not hold up well to general use. It was difficult to clean (standard crib mattresses have a plastic coating that can be wiped off), and after two children using it full time, it did not smell very good.
For baby #5, we were given a beautiful metal framed crib, with elaborate details, and it has been a gorgeous addition to our bedroom furniture.
Every child’s favorite place to sleep? Snuggled against mama’s chest.
Musical mobile for crib: This isn't essential, but a nice addition to the crib. Find one with the figurines facing down so that baby can see them better.
Who is this for? Mom or baby? If it’s for baby, why is baby laying in his crib needing something to look at? I bet he’d love to be looking at mama’s face.
Dresser: You will need a few drawers to store baby's clothes and toys.
This is a legitimate need. We bought a used, good quality piece that is simple and classic in design and will last his lifetime. My husband still uses the dresser he had as a child and it shows no signs of failing.
Changing area: This can be on top of a dresser or a separate changing table. It is a good idea to purchase a pad to lay baby on top of when changing. Never take your hand or eyes off baby when changing him or her, especially if your changing area is off the ground; baby's can roll off the table at the blink of an eye.
Had one, never used it. I tend to change baby wherever I am at the moment, usually on the floor; after a little practice, you get where you can do this quickly and don’t have to worry about making a mess on the floor. All body fluids wipe up easily from wood or vinyl floors, on carpet you could lay a towel under his bottom if you wanted. The most unusual place I ever changed a diaper? We were standing in line for the Jungle Cruise at Walt Disney World, when we realized that it was going to be quite a wait, and Jacob desperately needed a new diaper. Don held him up by the arms against his chest and I stripped down the pants, replaced the diaper, redressed him and we kept moving along with the line the whole time.
Rocking chair or glider. Although not essential, it's nice to have when feeding baby. Pick one out that has padded arms for extra support and comfort. A footrest adds additional comfort, especially if breastfeeding.
Have one, love it, babies or not, busy ladies need a comfortable place to sit in those spare moments that we have opportunity to.
Nightlight. Not essential, but it helps you see during those middle of the night diaper changes and feedings.
Okay, sure, not a bad idea. Mostly so I don’t step on a Lego or Lincoln Log; Hot Wheels cars are especially painful.
Tape or CD player: Lullaby music is a nice way to lull baby into a peaceful sleep or soothe baby when he or she is upset.
We all love music; Don and Caitlin both have excellent singing voices, Summer plays a little piano, and we have a large CD collection. I am no singing talent, and don’t play a musical instrument, but the sound my children love the most? The best lullaby ever? The sound of mama’s voice.
Crib Linens
1 set of crib bumpers
1 quilted mattress pad
2 fitted crib sheets (smaller sizes are sold for cradles, bassinets or port-a-cribs)
2 waterproof mattress pads or waterproof sheets
2 light blankets
1 sleep positioner. This is not essential but it does helps keep baby sleeping on his or her back or side. It is sold in most baby stores.
When making the crib, you have a few options. You may choose to use a waterproof mattress pad on the bottom and put the fitted crib sheet on top of that or you may want to look in to purchasing a waterproof pad/sheet (called sheet-savers) that goes on top of the fitted crib sheet. These can be found in most baby stores and make cleaning up accidents easier since all you have to do is change the top sheet of the crib.
Every crib mattress I’ve ever seen is plastic coated; this is easy to dry and wipe down as necessary. We use a fitted sheet (If he makes a mess on it, we change it, it’s small and thin and doesn’t add a lot to the laundry, otherwise I change his when I wash all the household bedding.)
If you go this route, be sure to get one that snaps on to the crib railings (you do not want the ones that you just place on top of the fitted sheet - these can increase the risk of sudden infant death syndrome).
If you choose to use the waterproof sheet savers you really only need 1 fitted crib sheet and 2 waterproof sheets. The fitted crib sheet should require few changes since the waterproof sheet saver on top will keep it dry. You do, however, want to get two waterproof sheet savers since you will need to change those regularly.
Note: babies don't need pillows or fluffy comforters in their crib! They also should not sleep with stuffed animals or toys. They could cause your baby to suffocate since he or she is not strong enough to roll over or push them away.
I’m not arguing this point, we’re not really stuffed toy collectors anyway. I’m just wondering how the toy gets over baby’s face? If he is not strong enough to roll over, he’s not going to the toy. (I assume the toy isn’t moving to him on its own – if it is, you have a whole other problem- they’ve written horror films about stuff like that). It just seems that by the time baby is old enough to get to the toy and get it by his face, he would also be old enough to push it away if it was keeping him from breathing. God didn’t make babies completely helpless (they have a few instincts that help them survive – like wanting to breathe).
Diaper Time: What You Need for the Changing Table
Diapers (plan on using 70-90 per week for the first six weeks, then 50 per week)
We’ve used both disposable and cloth; I prefer cloth.
Disposable diaper wipes (alcohol-free)
You can make your own from Bounty paper towels, or you can just as easily use a warm wet wash cloth. This works well with cloth diapers as you just throw the whole bit into the diaper pail to be washed together. Using the same soap for wiping as you do for bathing lessens the chance of irritation.
Diaper rash ointment or cream (such as Desitin or A&D)
Babies who are breast fed and cloth diapered hardly ever get diaper rash.
Rubbing alcohol to wipe around base of umbilical cord
Cotton swabs to apply rubbing alcohol
Petroleum jelly to apply on circumcision (so the baby's penis doesn't stick to the diaper)
These are items you likely have in your home already, they have various other uses.
Pad for baby to lie on during changing
I wouldn’t spend money on this, a towel works fine. They are often included in a diaper bag.
Diaper pail
Breastfed babies aren’t nearly as stinky. We wash diapers (cloth) about twice a week and just keep them in an open top bucket. For disposables; a plastic grocery bag can be wrapped around an especially nasty one and tied up before putting it into your regular trash.
Layette: Baby's First Clothes
6 undershirts that snap on the bottom or tie on the side, commonly called "onesies" (3 in three-month size and 3 in six-month size)
3-4 infant gowns with elastic bottoms or draw strings. These make for easy diaper changes. All you have to do is pull the gown up over the belly to change the diaper and then pull it back down when finished. There is no stumbling around trying to snap the gown back together, which is especially nice when it's 3 am and all you want to do is get baby back to sleep so that you can get back to sleep.
I have to agree, I loved these.
6 sleepers/stretch suits (3 newborn to three-month size and 3 in six-month size). These are nice to put baby in during the day, but are not essential items. When buying these, make sure you get the kind that zip up the front. These are easier to get baby in and out.
3-4 pairs of booties or socks with stretch elastic band at cuff
3-4 receiving blankets
1 blanket to cover swaddled baby in crib
1 sweater and hat
This is only if you have a late fall or winter baby. Summer babies can get too hot if all wrapped up all the time. None of my children ever kept a pair of socks or shoes on until they were walking on their own all the time.
Bathing Baby: What You Need
Baby bathtub (sloping with foam pad or flat with molded sponge insert)
Had one, used it once, it seemed silly and awkward. I like to take baby into the tub with me when they are very little and then into the shower when they are a little older. In the tub, I sit up and lay him across my chest or on my lap with my knees lifted. By age one or so, I sit nearby and read while they play in the tub (It’s like their own personal giant swimming pool).
4 terry cloth bath towels (hooded towels are OK, but not necessary)
4-6 washcloths
Just used what I already had.
Tearless shampoo
Baby soap. Many brands make baby shampoo and soap all in one.
I buy one or the other, never both. Babies don’t really get all that dirty until they are big enough to play in the dirt, and even that is mostly rinsed off with water.
Brush and comb
This is something most people need, (except for guys like my husband who just shave it off and never have to worry about a comb or brush) but I wouldn’t bother with the special baby ones. By the time any of my kids had enough hair to need a brush, they could use a regular hairbrush.
Rounded-tip nail scissors or clippers. If you are afraid you may clip more than baby's nails, you can nibble their nails with your teeth. Usually this is easier during the first few weeks.
This is good advice. I’ve often nibbled his nails down while he nurses as that is usually when I notice that he is scratching me.
Bulb syringe nasal aspirator. These are used to suction excess mucus from baby's nose (the one you receive in the hospital is a keeper!)
I’ve never used one of these. I’ve had one with every child, but never had a need for it. We never had an excess mucus problem. But, I will mention that not everyone has their baby in the hospital… I personally had a home birth, loved it, would do it again, can’t imagine any better way.
Washing Baby's Laundry
It is a good idea to wash all clothing and bedding in a detergent safe for babies. Some popular brands are Dreft and Ivory Snow. These products have been tested for their safe use for all skin types, especially infants.
These are expensive. None of us have ever had problems with detergent, although I know some people are sensitive.
Wash all infant clothing, bedding and towels, prior to first use.
To remove tough stains (such as spit-up), spot-treat the item with one of these detergents or soak prior to washing.
If you go to yard sales or resale and you see infant clothing with yellow spit up stains; those were formula fed babies. Breastfed babies don’t spit up as often and if they do, it washes out easily; doesn’t stain.
Feeding Baby
6 bottles. Even if you are breastfeeding, you should have bottles to use for pumped breast milk.
This is not necessarily true. My oldest children were fed both breast milk and formula, but my youngest was given breast only from birth until he could drink out of a cup and then we offered him alternatives. If you feel you might need to pump milk in an emergency, the pump that you buy will have storage bottles and you can buy a nipple to fit and keep this in the case with the pump.
In thirteen months, Jacob never had formula and I pumped one time. He was ill for several days and not nursing as much as normal. This was a sudden drop off and I became engorged. When I couldn’t get him to nurse, I used a pump to bring down the swelling and saved the milk. I did try at one time to give it to him, but he had no interest in the bottle anyway.
12 nipples and covers
1 bottle and nipple brush for cleaning
Dishwasher basket for bottles and nipples (optional, but makes for easy cleaning)
Infant formula and measuring cup (if you are not breastfeeding). Use the brand recommended by your child's doctor.
Breastfeed! Then, you can take all of these items off of your list and buy something you really want.
12 Burp cloths
If you use cloth diapers, these can do double duty here. I mostly would forget to use it on the occasion that my child did spit up on me, but I figure I would have put the shirt in the laundry at the end of the day anyway.
6 Bibs
I can see a usefulness here, but I just never use them. I’ve even hung a bunch on the back of a chair in the dining room so they would get used, but just never really did. Again, with practice and patience, you get good at spoon feeding without getting it all over their clothes. When they feed themselves, that’s another story. My best suggestion? Take off their shirt and let them eat naked. Baths are fun, laundry’s not.
Diaper Bag: What You Need When You Are on the Go
When buying a diaper bag, pick one that has lots of pockets and places to store individual items. Also, keep in mind that your diaper bag often becomes your purse, so find one large enough to keep your wallet, keys, glasses, cell phone and other items you need for yourself.
I use a backpack (not a special expensive diaper bag/backpack combination, but just a regular back to school sale kind of back pack). It is pink, so my daughters are happy to help carry it. I keep it in the van most of the time and just add stuff to it as needed. Because it is a backpack, we can take it hands free, and it is big enough for an overnight bag. For short runs, I can put a few wipes in a Ziploc style baggie and a diaper in my glovebox (in the car) or in my pocket (on a walk or bike ride), and not need a bag at all.
It's a good idea to keep this bag packed with the following items at all times so if you need to leave the house in a hurry (especially if you have to take baby to the doctor unexpectedly), you'll be ready:
5-6 diapers
Disposable wipes
Diaper rash cream or ointment
Pad to lie your baby on top of when changing the diaper
Plastic bags to wrap dirty diapers in until you can find a trashcan to throw them out
Change of clothes for baby. Infant onesies, a pair of socks, hat, baby outfit.
Blanket
2 clean bottles and powdered formula (if bottle feeding)
Burp cloth
Pacifier (if using)
Baby toy or rattle
Sunscreen for babies older than 6 months.
Baby Tylenol
Okay, we just spent two weeks at Walt Disney World and here is what we carried into the park each day expecting to be gone from our hotel (home) from around 7am until at least 6pm. We used a tiny Tinkerbell back pack that we found in the toy section and my second oldest liked the bag so much she carried it the entire time. She never had to take it off to ride a ride and it never was heavy or uncomfortable for her. Inside, we packed:
One park map; essential
One small tube (3oz – this is the same size that airlines will allow you to carry on) of 50SPF sunblock. Our family is all very light skinned and we burn easily. This amount was enough for us to get through the day (all seven of us coating our exposed parts). We refilled this small bottle from a larger one that we kept in the room.
Four (4) disposable diapers – We never actually used that many in a single trip. Jacob rode in a carrier on my back all day, and babies are less likely to go when carried, so we were able to estimate when we need to change him. (About twenty minutes after a meal or snack and a large drink, and soon after taking him out of the carrier.) We use cloth at home and I usually keep a few plastic grocery bags in the pack for bringing home the dirties.
One sandwich sized baggie with about 15 individual wet wipes.
One change of clothes. It was hot, so this was usually just an extra onesie.
We tried carrying a sippy cup, but found that it was just as easy to let him drink out of a straw or nurse when he was thirsty. So, we gave that up after a few days.
That’s it. That’s all we carried. Nothing more and coincidentally, it was always more than enough.
Other Essentials
Newborn-size pacifier. Many lactation consultants recommend not using a pacifier if you are breastfeeding to prevent nipple confusion in your baby.
Babies comfort nurse. This just means they like to snuggle and suckle (what Jacob is doing as I try to type this with one hand – he is latched on, but not really drinking, mostly just holding on because it’s comfortable – of course, he is interested in everything going on around him, so he doesn’t really snuggle, he does more of a flopping around kind of thing, but he doesn’t let go. Letting baby nurse when he wants means I am the pacifier.
Infant car seat. Can also be used as a baby carrier. And you can find stroller frames that the infant car seat can snap into so that you don't have to carry the car seat at all times, which can get heavy. If you decide to get a stroller that your infant car seat can snap in to, make sure you get one that fits your infant carrier.
Car seats are required by law, although I used to stand up on the seat next to my mom in the front seat of a pick up truck and I’m okay. The infant seats that lock into a base in the car and also lock into the frame of a stroller are very nice and convenient. Keep in mind that many babies reach the twenty pound limit on these seats very quickly. I had a baby the end of August, we didn’t go very many places in September, and by October it was quite cold for taking a new baby for a walk; then winter. By spring, he was too big for the infant seat (we had used it all winter as a car seat, but only a few times with the stroller feature). The stroller itself has years of use, but the extra money for this convenience is just that, extra money for convenience.
Breast pump for breastfeeding moms. Breast pumps allow you to pump milk so that someone else can feed your baby. This is important if you need to leave your baby for a significant amount of time (for example, if you are working). Breast pumps also come in handy when your breasts get engorged and baby is too sleepy to help you out. With a breast pump you can pump some of the milk out and save it for when baby is ready to eat
I would suggest having one an hand or at least knowing where you can borrow one. If you borrow one, you should clean it thoroughly before and after each use, of course.
Baby's Medicine Cabinet
Thermometer. There are many types available. Some doctors prefer that you use a rectal thermometer to get the most accurate temperature.
Yeah, not doing that. I personally have an aversion to putting things in baby’s bottom. I’m not really thrilled about taking care of the stuff that comes out as it is.
A digital, plastic thermometer that you can place under your baby's armpit may be easy for you to use for the first six months. Ear thermometers can be used after age 6 months.
Both of these are simple to use. For your own sanity, it is nice to be able to say, “His temperature is 99, that’s not too high, and it’s not going up, he’s probably fine.” As opposed to thinking, “Hmmm, he feels a little warmer than usual, maybe he has a fever, maybe he’s sick, maybe… maybe … maybe.” Anyone who’s ever been a parent can tell you that your mind can really cause trouble when it comes to imagining all the horrible things that might be wrong with your child.
Calibrated medicine dropper
Pain reliever/fever reducer medicine (acetaminophen, such as Tylenol infant drops, is recommended). Infant Motrin works great to relieve inflammation associated with teething. Do not use aspirin!
Mylicon drops to relieve gas.
Baby Orajel or Ambesol to soothe teething gums.
Small gauze squares to clean wounds.
Hydrogen peroxide to clean wounds.
Wound cream such as Bacitracin Antibiotic or Johnson & Johnson First Aid Cream. Do not use Neosporin on babies under age 6 months, as it contains an ingredient, neomycin, which can cause sensitivity in infants.
Small bandages.
Cool mist vaporizer. Good for when baby has a cold.
Infant sunscreen for babies over age 6 months. If you live in a very sunny climate and your child is exposed to sun often, talk to your baby's doctor about applying sunscreen earlier.
Syrup of Ipecac to be used only as directed by the Poison Control Center to induce vomiting.
Pedialyte or Ricelyte to be used as directed by your child's pediatrician for fluid replacement during diarrhea.
I keep a basic first aid kit, but it doesn’t have all these things in it. My children are seldom ill, and if they were, I would purchase what was needed at the time. There are risks to using medicinal products past their expiration date, so buying a bunch of stuff just to fill the medicine cabinet, probably means throwing most of it away unused.
Nonessentials (But Nice-to-Have!)
Baby monitor
A few years ago, we moved into a large home and I can’t always hear what is going on in other parts of the house, so this is an item that I appreciate. I would never use it if I had to replace batteries though, so I made sure to get one that has the option of using battery or power cords.
Swing
We’ve had several and I like the idea, but baby’s favorite place is mama’s arms.
Baby book. Essential if you want to record your baby's firsts.
We do love to journal. More and more I find I’m doing it on the computer, but I try to keep hard copies of some things to give to my children some day.
Infant seat. A "bouncy" seat is great! It gives you a safe place to put baby while you do things for yourself.
Want time for yourself? How about letting dad or someone else have some time with the baby?
High chair. You will use it when baby is 4-6 months old
These take up a lot of space for the time they are in use. We are trying (and I don’t know how well it will work) for the first time to go without a high chair. We have a seat that attaches to the table, that is portable and that so far seems to be a good choice. We will see how the transition period goes; will he be too big for the seat before he is big enough to sit in a booster chair?
Baby sling or pouch. These come in handy when you need to have your hands free to get things done around the house, but still carry your baby.
This is one item that I would put on the essential list. There is no better place for your baby than with you, but I know that I still have to clean house, teach children, train and discipline, read stories, play with and cook for my crew. I have a fabric carrier with back pack straps (no frame-a hybrid between the sling and the hiking pack) that has proved to be an incredible asset. Jacob loves to ride in it, falls asleep against my back listening to the sound of my heartbeat. I can wear it all day comfortably, it’s never in the way, and I can do all the things that I could do if I wasn’t carrying a baby at all. If I want to be more involved with him, I wear it on the front.
Now, I’m not saying that this isn’t a good list; I’m sure they put a lot of thought into it; I’m just adding my two cents. But, I would like to share a list of THE BEST products on the market. I didn’t make up this list, but I’ve seen it several places and don’t know who to credit it to.
The Best infant seat: mama’s arms.
The Best Stroller: mama’s body
The Best infant swing: mama’s lap
The Best music for babies: mama singing
The Best sound for baby: mama’s heartbeat
The Best food, the Best milk warming device, the Best pacifier, and the Best tranquilizer: mama’s breast.
The list of things to buy was taken from Medicinenet.com and credits are as follows:
Reviewed by The Cleveland Clinic Birthing Services and the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology.
Edited by Charlotte E. Grayson, MD,, April 2004, WebMD.
Portions of this page copyright © The Cleveland Clinic 2000-2002
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Disney Trip Journal 2007 continued
Friday September 14, 2007 Another day at Epcot. This is still our favorite park by far. We just love to hang out in the World Showcase and experience the countries. We started out today in The Land, ate brunch there (very good) boat ride, then fast passes for Soarin’, everybody went except Jacob who is too small.
The girls went to Nestle Jr. Chef program and got to make and bake cookies and got to each have two free ones. Dinner at San Angel, explored Mexico, Norway, very nice baby care station; this was one of those things I would have just skipped, but once we realized how nice it was, we really appreciated it. The first room was a lobby (like a Dr. office waiting area). Down the hall was a kid room with movies, coloring books & crayons, storybooks, toys, etc. Across from that was a special private room with rocking chairs (especially for nursing moms) and a mini store carrying every possible baby item you could ever possibly need. In the back was a changing area with several nice cushioned tables, plenty of supplies, and private bathrooms for men and women. It was a quiet air conditioned spot for us to take a break – as a family of seven, we find that someone usually needs a break at some point and these types of services make it so we don’t have to go back to our room to get some r&r.
We were supposed to have VIP seating for the fireworks today, but when we got there, it was pouring down rain, and the VIP section had no actual seats, and no awning or cover of any kind. Waiting inside a nearby store, Don nearly got hit by lightning. God was putting on His own light show. We had a magical moment while inside the store. A cast member stopped us in the store and invited us to play a game of “Name That Flag” We had to name the country for each of eleven flags, we were prepared and so got them all correct. Our prize was a certificate and a pixie dust pin for each person in our family. Actually, we each received two of the pixie dust pins, one to keep and one to give away. We were instructed that these pins were not for trading, but were for giving to whoever we wanted to share the magic with. We only saw a bit of the fireworks show, but held hands and ran through the rain dodging lightning bolts. That was so much more fun than any man made fireworks!
Saturday September 15th, 2007 Animal Kingdom today. This is our second day here. We made a list of the things we wanted to do, and set out to accomplish them. We rode Expedition Everest (twice) – Very cool coaster. I love that Disney has made an effort to really theme this, and not just put in a competitive roller coaster. We trekked back to Rafiki’s Planet Watch to check it out. Caitlin was chosen to touch a snake for the first time, and got a certificate and button for doing so. Later, that day we went over to Dinosaur; Don and the girls had ridden it on our previous day and wanted me to see their photo. So, we went up to the counter and asked to see it. Then, after looking at it and talking with the cast member at the register for a bit, we said we would have to think about it. She said that she would make our dream come true and gave us a free 8X10. YAY!
We left this park around 4pm (we did a better job of staying in the shade and finding some air conditioned spots), and headed to Boma for dinner. The buffet here serves a few unusual dishes, but for an African restaurant, it is very Americanized.
Sunday September 16th, 2007. Back to Epcot. Still our favorite park. No matter how many times we come here, we still find more things to do. We rode Test Trak and Mission Space. Ethan had a magical moment, when he and I went into the play area while we waited for the rest of our group. He was selected to be an astronaut in the game and push the “Boost” button for every round.
We ate at the Coral Reef for lunch. It was not quite what we had expected, but they kids had a good time trying to find the fish in the aquarium that were pictured on the reference card provided at our table.
Monday September 17th, 2007. Today, we left Disney parks and took a cab to Sea World. ($28) This was a fun adventure and we began to discuss book/unit study ideas for these parks as well. (Yes, even when I’m having fun, I’m always working.) We caught a cab back to Downtown Disney $24. This is a bit of a shorter trip than from other areas of the resort.
Tuesday September 18th, 2007. This was our day at the Holy Land. We had quite an adventure here. I’ll tell all about it very soon, but for now it is time for bed. Mothers do need a bit of sleep too, you know. Jacob will be waking up in about four hours for a drink and I’ll have to get up then too.
We were supposed to have VIP seating for the fireworks today, but when we got there, it was pouring down rain, and the VIP section had no actual seats, and no awning or cover of any kind. Waiting inside a nearby store, Don nearly got hit by lightning. God was putting on His own light show. We had a magical moment while inside the store. A cast member stopped us in the store and invited us to play a game of “Name That Flag” We had to name the country for each of eleven flags, we were prepared and so got them all correct. Our prize was a certificate and a pixie dust pin for each person in our family. Actually, we each received two of the pixie dust pins, one to keep and one to give away. We were instructed that these pins were not for trading, but were for giving to whoever we wanted to share the magic with. We only saw a bit of the fireworks show, but held hands and ran through the rain dodging lightning bolts. That was so much more fun than any man made fireworks!
Saturday September 15th, 2007 Animal Kingdom today. This is our second day here. We made a list of the things we wanted to do, and set out to accomplish them. We rode Expedition Everest (twice) – Very cool coaster. I love that Disney has made an effort to really theme this, and not just put in a competitive roller coaster. We trekked back to Rafiki’s Planet Watch to check it out. Caitlin was chosen to touch a snake for the first time, and got a certificate and button for doing so. Later, that day we went over to Dinosaur; Don and the girls had ridden it on our previous day and wanted me to see their photo. So, we went up to the counter and asked to see it. Then, after looking at it and talking with the cast member at the register for a bit, we said we would have to think about it. She said that she would make our dream come true and gave us a free 8X10. YAY!
We left this park around 4pm (we did a better job of staying in the shade and finding some air conditioned spots), and headed to Boma for dinner. The buffet here serves a few unusual dishes, but for an African restaurant, it is very Americanized.
Sunday September 16th, 2007. Back to Epcot. Still our favorite park. No matter how many times we come here, we still find more things to do. We rode Test Trak and Mission Space. Ethan had a magical moment, when he and I went into the play area while we waited for the rest of our group. He was selected to be an astronaut in the game and push the “Boost” button for every round.
We ate at the Coral Reef for lunch. It was not quite what we had expected, but they kids had a good time trying to find the fish in the aquarium that were pictured on the reference card provided at our table.
Monday September 17th, 2007. Today, we left Disney parks and took a cab to Sea World. ($28) This was a fun adventure and we began to discuss book/unit study ideas for these parks as well. (Yes, even when I’m having fun, I’m always working.) We caught a cab back to Downtown Disney $24. This is a bit of a shorter trip than from other areas of the resort.
Tuesday September 18th, 2007. This was our day at the Holy Land. We had quite an adventure here. I’ll tell all about it very soon, but for now it is time for bed. Mothers do need a bit of sleep too, you know. Jacob will be waking up in about four hours for a drink and I’ll have to get up then too.
Sunday, September 23, 2007
Walt Disney World Trip Journal 2007
Disney Trip Journal 14 days 7 people 10 day park passes Here We Go! Sunday September 9, 2007 Left Reed City around 10am (we were ten minutes late for church, so we skipped it). Had to stop and buy a new battery for our digital camera, which was a good thing because it ran out several times in the middle of a park day. We took a lot of pictures this trip. We had tried to get one directly from HP website (after trying WalMart, etc.). It was $50, and could be shipped overnight, but not to our zip code. Oh, the joys of small town life.
We stopped at Best Buy in Grand Rapids, and they had a package; battery, charger and camera bag (still $50). However, the Grand Rapids store had none in stock. They called around and found that Lansing had one. They asked them to hold it for us until we arrived. So, that dilemma averted, on to Grandfather’s house. We had said we’d be there around 6pm, but that was when we were planning to attend a 10am service and an 11am concert and a noon potluck (Education Sunday at our church). We instead arrived around 4pm even after our search for a battery and a sit down lunch at the Old Country Buffet. We visited with Grampa Johnson and Jeanette for a bit and then headed to Aunt Linda’s for dinner at 6pm. After brats and chicken, salad and corn (it worked out well that we had seen the corn farm guy on the corner across from McDonalds).
We stopped at the Wesco to get coffee. Don had made some in the morning, but Caitlin dumped it out so she could start hot water for oatmeal. When we were there, we saw his banner said “last day” and decided to get one last dozen for the road. It went quite well with the meat and salad they’d provided. After dinner, we went back to Grampa’s house and got everyone ready for bed, the next morning was going to be an early one.
Monday September 10, 2007 It’s hard to sleep when you know what to expect the next day. There are so many reasons to wake up and keep checking the clock. You don’t want to oversleep and be late for the flight, not only would you miss the chance to fly in a plane, but you’d miss the entire trip. In someone else’s house, using someone else’s clock, not sure if it works or if we know how to work it, afraid the alarm won’t go off. AAAGH! Jacob didn’t want to go to sleep. He has gotten pretty used to sleeping in his own bed and the idea of sleeping with us was not quite comfortable, being in our bed means one of two things, time to nurse or time to play and he didn’t want to do either, so he fussed until he finally could stay awake no longer. He and I both woke up frequently in the night, my inability to sleep was due to anticipation of the days to come. I don’t know if the alarm ever went off or not, but we were all up and ready with plenty of time to get dressed and packed and on our way to the airport. The morning was uneventful, Grampa drove our van to the airport, dropped us off, took our van back to his house; we got out at the airport, check in our luggage, stood in line, took off our shoes, went through security. *No liquids are allowed in larger than 3oz. and I had a sippy cup filled with water for Jacob in the backpack* So, we did have to take a little extra time to while they searched the backpack. I will remember to empty it before we go and fill it up once inside the terminal on the way home. Our flight arrived ten minutes early –YAY!- We found the desk for Magical Express boarding, stood in line with all the other people who had just gotten off of our plane, checked in, got in another line to board the bus, got on, rode to the resort and got in another line to check into the hotel. *We both commented that our experience with Magical Express was much more luxurious the last time we came. Our flight was several hours late, bringing us in about 1am, and a team of Disney Cast Members were waiting for us when we arrived at the luggage carousel. Our luggage had been placed on a different plane and ended up in Washington state. The cast members greeted us and led us right to the lost luggage claims dept. Then, said they would take care of it from there. Put us on a bus with just a few other families, turned on Cinderella on the on board televisions, and drove us to the hotel, where our rooms were ready and we checked right in and all went right to sleep. We didn’t do any parks that next day, just changed into the clothes we had in our overnight bag and did a load of laundry.*
This trip, we had no luggage mishaps, but felt more like cattle than valued guests. The bus was packed and the video was an advertisement for Disney stuff. We checked in but it was only 11am and no rooms were ready (not promised to be ready until 3-5pm). We got our cards with our park tickets and meal plan on them, we just couldn’t get a room assignment. The pool closest to us was being renovated so we couldn’t swim, we didn’t have suits anyway since our luggage hadn’t arrived yet. Not lost, it just takes a little while for it to come because they bring it over separately and then deliver it to your room, but we didn’t have a room anyway. We ate lunch at Stadium Hall, realized that Jacob had been in the backpack carrier since 5am and had been wearing the same diaper since about 4am – I think eight hours is too long for any diaper, so we went over to guest laundry and washed a few items, like the carrier and Jacob’s clothes. I had packed extras for him.
WOW! It’s expensive to do laundry. I don’t frequently have to use the Laundromat, but I guess we are a captive audience. We spent $6.25 to wash three items. Later in the week, we hand washed some small items so we wouldn’t have to spend that much again right away. On a two week trip, we expected to have to do some laundry. We packed about 6 outfits per person, plus a couple extra for the baby. We anticipated doing laundry at least once during our stay, but we tried to hold it off as long as possible. The heat and humidity really makes it difficult to wear anything more than once. We were able to get into our room, one of them anyway by about 1pm, and the other one was ready shortly after. We relaxed in the room for an hour or so, then our luggage arrived, we unpacked and after resting up in our 60 degree hotel room, we left for Epcot. (I do appreciate Disney transportation, but I am not sure how we are going to work out our days away from the resort, we have planned two days at Sea World and one at the Holy Land Experience. I stopped a taxi driver to ask what the cost would be, $30 each way – YIKES! I don’t expect to change our plans, but that’s quite a chunk of our vacation budget.)
Spaceship Earth is closed, but for good reason, they are putting back in the interactive hands on exhibit area at the exit. This was an educational bonus when it was there before and I was disappointed to see it go, but was glad to hear that Siemens would be sponsoring its return. We took some pictures, meandered through some shops, I love the art gallery at the front here. I’ve never bought anything there, and I probably never will, but I love to walk through this area and just see all the talent that has influenced this place. We bypassed the character greeting station, we have enough autographs and our kids are like, “Hey look, there’s Mickey.” “Do you want to go over and say Hello?” “No, not really.” We like the personal interaction (I’ll get to those stories in a bit), but don’t really care for the stand in line to say hello stuff. However, I do like the concept, as it allows families who are on a “got to get autograph/picture from every princess” to accomplish their mission. It also diverts crowds of people from the walkways. Next to this in the same building, there was a NASA exhibit. It was more of a walk through than an interactive, however there was a visiting astronaut (female school teacher who recently went up). We didn’t get to meet her personally, but did see her entourage getting their photos taken while we were in the exhibit. We left this exhibit and walked down to the ferry boat, picking up a frozen lemonade along the way (We are from Michigan, yes we were hot already), took the ferry boat across and toured the United Kingdom and Canada, then France. We saw Off Kilter, Serveur Amusant, Impressions de France, and had a late dinner at Chefs de France. Summer had her first try at calamari, her dad told her it was squid, and she ordered it anyway, but when it came and she saw the tentacles, she freaked a little. She loves to cook and experiment with recipes, so she was easy to convince to try it, and we all had a bite to help her out. It doesn’t taste bad, but there is something weird about chewing on a tentacle. Don had the tuna, which is served nearly raw, and cut like slices of bread. It is very different than the stuff in a can, but rather bland. The side/topping that is served with it is a flavorful addition and the combination is delicious. By the time we finished dinner, it was pouring down rain outside. We didn’t mind the break from the heat, and it seemed like we were the only people in the park not wearing a Disney plastic parka. It was 9pm, we’d been up since 4am, so we headed back to the room and sent everyone to bed.
Tuesday September 11, 2007 We decided to try an early morning at the Magic Kingdom. We made 8am reservations at the Crystal Palace for breakfast with Pooh. This type of experience makes the dining plan worthwhile. This is the second time we have tried out the ‘free’ dining plan. You do have to stay in a Disney resort, which is more expensive than staying elsewhere; this does also provide the ‘free’ transportation, however, it is very difficult (expensive) to go anywhere outside of Disney without your own vehicle. We did not plan to rent a car and did not pay for gas to get here (we planned to drive, but found such a great deal on air fare through TranAir it ended up being cheaper to fly). So, we were saving those expenses. However, without entering a park, your food choices are extremely limited. Our resort offered burgers & fries or pasta. The children’s meals were less than impressive as the only child who was able to fill up on a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, ten grapes, and sugar free applesauce for dessert was our two year old who you can’t even buy the dining plan for. At home or school when children sit a lot, maybe this would be enough, but we’re running through the parks, chasing busses and fast pass times, trying to accomplish as much as possible in a very short time, our kids needed more food than this. We ended up giving our kids much of our adult meals, which would have been plenty if we had gotten to eat it ourselves, and trying to make it up later in snacks. However, the table service meals with characters were well worth the plan. While we didn’t eat $40 worth of food, we did feel that these experiences were worth it. As opposed to standing in line to get a quick hello/hug/photo/autograph and move on for the next family in line, this sit with your family and enjoy a meal together while periodically being visited by a fun Disney character who comes over, engages you in conversation, poses for a picture, signs autographs, blows kisses (thanks Tigger); this is the way to see characters. Our next stop was Splash Mountain, but we made several detours along the way. Getting into the park an hour before it opened allowed us to take pictures with no people in them. It also meant that we were walking out of the restaurant as most guests were just getting in the front gate. We were able to really stop and look at architectural designs displayed here, and spend time talking to the cast members who were waiting on the streets of Frontierland. The first was a security guard (at least dressed like one) who stopped us for entering a “No Frown Zone”. He threatened to give us a ticket, but then decided to give us some Mickey stickers and a warning. A little ways down the trail, we ran into a member of the Dream Team; these are the cast members who are responsible for handing out all those “Million Dreams”. 2007 is Disney’s year of a Million Dreams. Each day someone in the Magic Kingdom is chosen to spend the night in Cinderella’s Castle, someone is chosen to be the Grand Marshall of the parade, some children are given free cotton candy, and there are various other ‘dreams come true’ that Disney is offering at this time. Because no one else was around, we got to talk with the Dream Team guy for quite awhile and he told us that the year of a million dreams idea was so great that they are going to continue into next year. Is it a rumor? Or could it be true? We did make it to Splash Mountain, but only Don, Summer, Caitlin, and I rode. Jacob was too small, Tyler and Ethan both could have ridden, but chose not to. Next, Don, Summer, Caitlin rode Big Thunder Mountain while I took the boys to the bathroom where we changed Jacob. They were actually finished before we were, which gives you some idea how short the lines were today.
We had lunch at Cosmic Ray’s which was very disappointing. We are using the dining plan, so the kids are supposed to get a desert, but they didn’t. Don ordered a Coke, but received iced tea. These are minor things and could have been taken care of quickly, if anyone had even acknowledged that I was there. I stood at the counter for 15 minutes trying to get the attention of any of the three girls who were working there (1pm Bay3). They never even looked at me. Finally, I went back and got in line for a cash register, and waited my turn and asked the cashier to rectify the situation. She was able to quickly fix it, but even after I told her that I’d stood there for fifteen minutes and been ignored, I got nothing except a Coke and two cookies, not even an apology. Very disappointing. This compared to a very different experience we had later on the same day. Over in the Tomorrowland (4:15pm) at Auntie Gravity’s I was standing in line with the two littlest ones to get some ice cream while Don took the older kids on Space Mountain. While I waited, a cast member came over and brought a small bowl of ice cream and a spoon for Ethan. Then, she went back to the kitchen and came out again with a small bowl and started feeding Jacob who was riding in the back pack carrier. She chatted about this and that, and visited with the boys until I had ordered and received my ice cream. That’s the kind of service I expect to see at Disney, the kind that goes above and beyond.
We rode rides, saw shows; Carousel of Progress is still my favorite, and at 5pm attended the flag ceremony in Town Square. They do this every evening, it was only coincidence that we happened to see it on September 11th. It was a very moving and patriotic ceremony.
Wednesday September 12, 2007 Magic Kingdom second day Magical Beginnings opening
An hour early to Fantasy land. This was a worthwhile event to attend. It did require us to be early risers, but the benefits were great. We were allowed to enter the park early for a program called Magical Beginnings designed especially for the five and under crowd. Only Fantasyland was open at this time, but it was full of characters. There were the standard character lines that we don’t especially care to do, but we were also able to ride the rides with no wait time, and several of the characters were hosting activities. Caitlin, Ethan and Summer were part of a group of about ten children that joined Peter Pan, Wendy and Captain Hook for a round of games like Peter Says, The Wheel on the Ship, and The Mates Go Marching.
The Mates Go Marching one by one, two by two, and so on, but after six by six, Captain Hook jumped to the middle and showed Wendy his hook, and she said, “Oh, you can only count to six.” She asked if anyone would like to help Captain Hook count to ten. Caitlin volunteered and was chosen. She is lucky that way, but it probably helped that many of the other children were five and under and looked like they weren’t really sure if they could count to ten either.
Later on in the day, we went to Belle’s story time and Caitlin was picked out of the crowd to play Mrs. Potts on stage as part of the story.
Ate lunch at Liberty Tree Tavern. We finished just as the parade was about to pass by, so we got a great view of the parade, we followed the parade to the front of the park, and then headed back to the hotel for an early evening. Everyone took a nap and then Mommy, Tyler and Caitlin all took a dip in the pool, while Summer, Ethan, Jacob and Daddy relaxed in the room.
Thursday September 13, 2007 Animal Kingdom Here we saw the Lion King show first thing in the morning, then Pocahontas,*we caught the interpretive signers at this show – they put on a show of their own- it is fascinating to watch* and then right to Flights of Wonder. We ate at Flame Tree BBQ, they really need a table service restaurant besides the RainForest Café (which I am pretty sure does not accept the Disney dining plan). We need to get out of the heat and into air conditioning where you can get never ending refills of water and replenish/rehydrate. By 3pm, we all are suffering from heat stroke. Don’t know how we are going to make it on the extra hours night. We rode Dinosaur, dug up some bones at the fossil dig site, played in the DinoPlay area. Caught the show “It’s Tough to be a Bug” on the way out. Returned to hotel and ate dinner in the food court. Another relaxing, casual day.
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